Parenting Boot Camp: The Training Guide No One Told You About 

So, you’re about to become a parent—congratulations! Everyone’s probably telling you how magical and life-changing it will be (and it is), but let’s cut to the chase. Raising a tiny human is also the most physically demanding adventure you’ll ever embark on. Think of it as an endurance sport where sleep is a luxury, snacks are currency, and survival depends on your ability to multitask like a pro.

To help you prepare, we’ve designed a pre-baby training guide. No sugar-coating here—this is the real deal. Welcome to parenthood, where your days are long, your coffee is cold, and your life doubles as an extreme fitness boot camp!

1. Master the Toddler Carry

Strap on a weighted backpack, hold a 20-pound bag of flour in one arm, and a squirming puppy in the other. Now walk on a treadmill for an hour. Add in a squirm every 10 seconds, as if the puppy just spotted a squirrel. That’s the closest you’ll get to the experience of carrying your toddler, your diaper bag, and their precious stuffed animal after any outing. Bonus points if you can balance your coffee cup in between.

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2. Pony Play Pro Circuit

Spend 30 minutes a day on all fours. Crawl under tables, through tight spaces, and over scattered objects with a smile (your baby will think you’re hilarious). For added realism, strap a 25-pound weight to your back and neigh like a pony. Extra challenge: crawl over a floor of scattered Duplo blocks. It’s like “hot coals,” but sharper.

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3. The High-Chair Cleanup Sprint

Set the timer for two minutes and clean up as much food as possible after a “pretend toddler” meal. But here’s the catch: someone will keep tossing spaghetti and cheerios onto the floor while you work. It’s cardio, agility, and mental endurance rolled into one chaotic drill! By the end, you’ll wonder why you even bothered mopping in the first place.

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4. Stroller Drills: The Ultimate Push-Pull Workout

Push a stroller uphill while carrying a bag of snacks, a water bottle, and everything else you packed but won’t use. Extra points if you can push with one hand while trying to convince your “pretend toddler” that they don’t need to inspect every rock along the way.

5. Nap Ninja Training

Tiptoe across a floor littered with bubble wrap and squeaky dog toys. Your mission: sneak out of a room without making a sound, gently close the door, and celebrate in silence. One wrong move, and you start over. (Pro tip: just don’t sit or close your eyes—you’re on call 24/7.)

The stakes? A prematurely woken baby who will make you pay dearly for your misstep.

6. The Squat-A-Thon

Scatter random objects around your house and squat every time you pick one up. For added realism, practice with a timer while someone yells, “No, not that one!” every 20 seconds. If you can do this without rolling your eyes, you’re parent-ready.

Bonus: Practice holding a “No, no!” face while you squat. You’ll need it.

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7. Build Your Stamina with “Midnight Sprints”

Wake up at random intervals throughout the night. Sprint to the kitchen, prepare a snack or bottle in record time, and return to your “station” (a couch or chair) while dodging toys you forgot to pick up. Stay awake for at least 30 minutes while contemplating your life choices. Then repeat until sunrise.

8. Perfect the Art of Multitasking

Hold a fake baby in one arm, stir a pot of spaghetti with the other, and answer a phone call. Bonus round: repeat while singing “The Wheels on the Bus.”

If you can master this, you’re ready for the true parenting challenge: drinking hot coffee while doing it all.

9. Survive the Grocery Store Gauntlet

Push a shopping cart with a watermelon balanced precariously on the edge. Now hold a Bluetooth speaker playing baby cries at full volume. Zig-zag around fellow shoppers, perform emergency lunges for falling items, and sprint to the checkout. Your mission: grab everything on your list without knocking over the watermelon or having a public meltdown of your own.

If you make it to checkout with your sanity intact, congratulations—you’ve unlocked the next level: wrangling a car seat escape artist.

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10. Embrace the Snack Mule Life

Fill a backpack with snacks and take a long walk. Every five minutes, rummage through the bag to find the exact snack your “pretend toddler” (a friend or partner) demands. Spoiler: Toddlers have a sixth sense for the one snack you didn’t bring.

Graduation Day: When the Baby Arrives

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If you can survive this pre-baby boot camp, you’re as ready as you’ll ever be for parenthood. Nothing can truly prepare you for the whirlwind of raising a child, but a little humor, a lot of patience, and strong arms for carrying your toddler will go a long way.

Parenting is the ultimate fitness program—one that strengthens your endurance, patience, and heart in equal measure. Sure, your body might ache, but nothing will compare to the joy of your child’s laugh or the warmth of their tiny arms around your neck.

Now go forth, future parents! You’ve got this. And if all else fails, just remember: coffee is your best friend, and “I don’t know what I’m doing” is a perfectly valid parenting philosophy.