What Not to Give a Child That’s Not Yours: A Guide to Avoiding Common Gift Mistakes
Gifting a child who isn’t your own can be a delightful experience, but it also comes with its own set of challenges. While it’s important to choose a gift that will bring joy to the child, it’s equally crucial to avoid certain items that might not be suitable.
Most likely, those parents already have a room full of things they’re dying to get rid of, and while your intentions might be undoubtedly good, some gifts might not be as well-received as you hope.
So, I’ve taken the liberty of putting together a little guide on what NOT to give a child that’s not yours. Feel free to share this with your family members who might need to know!
1. Pets
A pet is a huge responsibility and should never be given without explicit permission from the parents. We certainly don’t need another thing to take care of.
*Alternative*: Consider giving a book about pets instead.
2. Noisy Toys
While kids might love loud, noisy toys, parents often do not.
*Alternative*: Opt for quieter, more educational toys or books that can be enjoyed without disturbing the peace.
3. Electronics and Screen-Based Gifts
High-end gadgets can be risky and are often unnecessary.
Many parents are cautious about their child’s screen time. Avoid gifting tablets, video games, or other electronic devices without consulting the parents first.
*Alternative*: Buy a book, instead.
4. Items with Lots of Pieces
Here goes anything that ends with the word “KIT”
Toys with many parts , especially small parts, can be overwhelming and easy to lose, creating frustration for both the child and parents. Besides, for children under three, toys with small parts can pose a serious choking risk.
*Alternative*: Choose toys with fewer, larger pieces that are easier to manage and keep track of. Or get a book.
5. Messy Items
Gifts like glitter sets, play dough, or finger paints can lead to significant messes. I surely want all of that far away from my house.
*Alternative*: Choose a mess-free activity set. A book is also good.
A book is also good.
6. Excessive or Oversized Gifts
Large (Giant stuffed animals, large playsets, dollhouses) or numerous gifts can be overwhelming for the children and are VERY impractical for parents.
*Alternative*: Select one thoughtful, manageable gift that the child will appreciate and use. Contemplate the idea of getting a book.
7. Ongoing Expenses
Avoid gifts that come with a financial commitment for the parents, like toys that need frequent battery replacements, subscriptions that need renewal, or equipment that requires maintenance. Seriously, we don’t need more expenses over here.
*Alternative*: Consider gifts that are self-contained and don’t require additional purchases such as books.
8. Clothing
Clothing can be tricky due to sizing issues and personal taste.
*Alternative*: A gift card to a popular children’s store allows parents to choose what suits their child best. You could also get them a book instead.
9. Food and Candy
Edible gifts are risky. Sugary snacks are a big NO.
*Alternative*: If you want to give something edible, consider consulting with the parents first. However, it’s always save to opt for a non-food gift like a book.
10. Anything that requires adult supervision
I really don’t need to explain this one. Do I?
*Alternative*: Get a book.
Did you see what I did there?
Always consider the parents’ preferences (Yes, I did say parents) and the child’s safety first. Thoughtfulness and consideration go a long way in making your gift both memorable and appreciated.
Books are the best choice—they don’t make noise, they won’t leave a mess, and they never go out of style.
Happy gifting!
If you have anything that you’d like to add to the list, please feel free to leave it in the comments!
